The right time, the right person.

I wouldn’t know what you will think of when you see this title, but mostly people simply regard this “right person” as our life partners. Do you?

Haha, of course, a right person shouldn’t only be your future partner, it can be your friends and even your teachers too. The affinity between human is so mysterious, strange but precious. Why we met each other? Why at this time? What reasons make us friends? Which qualities do we share in order to pull us closer? What would happen if I did not make the move?

Do you ever think of it? Even a small action can change the world entirely? Or at least, YOUR WORLD?

If you believe in parallel worlds, I believe that you will understand what I am trying to say.

Possibilities. The world is full of possibilities. We are always making choices now and then, which lead us to who we are now and what will us going to be. The same theory applies to people who we met in our life time. I knew I wouldn’t meet some of them if I had not chosen Form 6, and I knew everything would turn out in another way. However please bear in mind that there’s no “perfect path” in the world. Even when we suffer from the choice we made, we cannot deduce that a brighter future is ahead on the road not taken.

We will never know.

That is why the so-called “true love” is precious than anything else for someone. Imaging you meet a girl/boy whom you like in a particular time and coincidently, she/he likes you too. Sometimes people say it is a “miracle”. It is not the end of the story. The couple will have to undergo countless challenges together, and it cannot be called “true love” before their relationship survives. The person who walks by your side till the end of your life is not necessary the one you love most or the one who love you most, but he or she must be the one you meet in the right time.

Friends also the same. I am regarding those friends who you can really rely on when you need them. It takes a second to make a friend, but much long time to keep a friend close to you. Friends we meet in the right time can turn out to be life-long, when we are both best suited to each other. Of course it is not the only key for a successful relationship, understanding, tolerance and chances, yes, chances are needed for you to know your friends better. It can be a minor incident, an unexpected fight, a call or anything else.

This is what I understand recently, inspired by a short story and my friends.